smells like content
I’m not saying he is THE one, but it wouldn't be so bad if he was, ya know what I mean?
But to continue discussing dating, I was having another one of those amazing conversation with the ladies at my office a couple of days ago, and…well…let me add some context so you don’t think that’s all we talk about ( when in fact it is). I was having a hard time in my current relationship; which is absolutely natural to be stumped in certain issues when you don’t have that much experience ;-)
Listening attentively to what was said, this is what I gathered.
We have to learn what we want before we try to tell someone else how to make us happy (duh!). It is so easy to look and find someone who is willing to do whatever it is to make you happy but if you can't do it without the presence of a significant other, as women we have to make it happen for ourselves.
Otherwise, having a boyfriend or husband is only going to last as long as the person has the momentum to keep going without having that satisfaction returned. You got that…? Let me simplify…. He’ll leave your ass when he gets fed up.
With that being said, ladies, embrace yourselves; love yourselves before trying to get someone else to love you. Otherwise, you will find yourself constantly asking what the problem is. It’s YOU…It’s always been YOU.
We change and grow so much at different stages in our lives.
If all that fails…SEX!!!